While AB and I were at the library yesterday, I was
approached by a cherubic little girl. She asked me if I would read a book to
her. I suggested that she ask her dad, thinking that should be asking him to read to her. But instead, she was asking his permission for me to read to her. I was taken aback for a very brief moment, but then I
thought, This kid
wants to read so let's to read. AB was
up for it, so we found a tiny table and started to read.
It soon became
apparent that AB was a more advanced reader than our new friend. So I found
myself trying to juggle an increasingly uninterested (and slightly jealous) 5
year old and a superinterested (and slightly hyper) 5 year old. After a few
rounds of reading the first two pages from various books, interspersed with
discussion of tomboys, princesses, and school fundraisers (oddly enough), the
girls and I took the fun outside. We got permission from her dad (again) and
went to the playground next to the library.
It was there that we
proceeded to swing, run, climb, slide, spin, tag, hide, and seek until our new
friend had to leave for a less (hello there, Mr. Extracurricular). However, her
father and I made plans for the girls to meet again this afternoon.
There were two
things that impressed me about this experience. First, the ease with which
little kids become friends. The girls had never laid eyes on one another
before. They didn't know each other's names (and still don't). But they quickly
bonded over a love reading and playing. It was just so easy. Second, the
confidence with which our new friend approached me with her reading proposal. I
think part of it was her personality, which could definitely be described as
gregarious. Yet, I also believe that it stemmed from experience. I wouldn't be
surprised to learn that AB and I were not the first kid-parent duo she had
picked up at the library. And I found that to be kind of awesome.
This unexpected
playdate was truly unexpected joy, which is hands down the best kind.
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